So the good news is that Scarlett's Flower Girl dress arrived over the weekend. It had been going in and out of stock and I finally managed to bag one for her.
To remind you, it looks like this.
Whilst browsing the BHS site I found this. If only it was a adult bridesmaid dress, I'd pass it off as a wedding dress!!
Also found this, it's quite nice. I think I might be clutching at straws somewhat though!